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My husband's church talk on "The Atonement of Jesus Christ"
The Atonement of Jesus Christ: How I can show my faith and trust in His love for me Brothers and Sisters, I pray and invite the Spirt...

Shara Ogilvie
Aug 31, 20249 min read
Daily Repentance: My husband's talk was a slam dunk
When my husband puts his mind to writing on a topic, he really goes all out. He was asked to speak on Daily Repentance in Sacrament...

Shara Ogilvie
Sep 12, 20238 min read
Follow up post on transgender grief
I've received lots of private messages on this post from a few weeks ago. When I wrote it, I'd had a flood of emotion that day about my...

Shara Ogilvie
Mar 15, 20214 min read
My semi-nihilistic Monday morning in free verse poetry :)
On a Monday morning At 11:33 am I walk in the cool of early March Phone in a pocket, earbud in my ear It's a quiet street, a quiet...

Shara Ogilvie
Mar 5, 20214 min read
*COMEDY* The driver's test: a teen's easy step-by-step guide
First of all, CONGRATULATIONS! Having a kid with a driver's license is a big step. Soon they will be picking up groceries and stuff for...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 26, 20213 min read
My husband's church talk on "Following the Prophet"
What follows is the manuscript of my husband's talk last week at church. He was just sustained as Elder's Quorem President as well, so...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 24, 20217 min read
"Oh dad, how could you?" - a rough Sunday afternoon
Yesterday afternoon I was laying there in bed, attempting a Sunday afternoon nap when I started thinking about my last name. Then I...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 22, 20215 min read
The Qur'an and the Book of Mormon on the playground
Last year, I became semi-obsessed with one particular verse in the Book of Mormon. I thought about it - on and off - all year. Recently,...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 19, 20214 min read
To my boys who left the faith
Dear sons, You may not know this, but your leaving the church has been good for me. I didn't ever think my kids would leave the faith....

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 16, 20214 min read
No lie, I love to go to church and I think the people there are genuine
Way too many people think church is boring, or a place full of judgmental hypocrites. But that's not how it is for me at all. OK,...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 15, 20214 min read
Book Review: "The Wim Hof Method" + personal experience
As a teen, I once jumped into a freezing lake and did a headstand, but that was just for attention, not the health benefits. Since then,...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 8, 20216 min read
10 Ways You Can Think You Sound Like a Brilliant Therapist When In Fact You are Brilliantly Stupid
This case really stood out to me. The client was a kind-hearted and sensitive young mom who had all kinds of trouble with her family. She...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 3, 20215 min read
My trans ex-husband will never take the role of "mother" away from me
I feel like I've been gut-punched. I feel like crying and it's hard to breathe. This morning I just received an online message where...

Shara Ogilvie
Feb 1, 20214 min read
Book review: Zinsser's "Writing to Learn"
William Zinsser's "On Writing Well" is a classic in the world of the how-to-write genre. But his "Writing to Learn" is less well known. I...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 29, 20213 min read
Christ's Character gave him real POWER
The atonement (and Christ's perfect example) didn't inevitably occur just because Christ was on a steam train bound for being perfect. It...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 27, 20212 min read
Religious abuse is REAL.
It's an ugly fact, but religious abuse is real.* What is religious abuse? It is when, in the name of religion, a person pulls power to...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 22, 20216 min read
I tried to ditch Adderall - didn't work
Today I'm back on Adderall after being off for just under a year. My brain feels soooooo much better. Despite all I've been through to...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 21, 20213 min read
Christ helps with hopelessness
Never be discouraged. If I were sunk in the lowest pits of Nova Scotia, with the Rocky Mountains piled on me, I would hang on,

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 20, 20214 min read
Book Review: Cultural Literacy
Cultural Literacy, by E.D. Hirsch, Jr. is an excellent read. If you are interested in educational theory, that is. Hirsch makes the...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 19, 20212 min read
We are to Overcome The World
Christ said we are to be like him. In John 16:33, he said, "I have overcome the world." What does that mean, to overcome the world? I...

Shara Ogilvie
Jan 18, 20212 min read
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